Letter to Psycho
A letter written to the boyfriend's psycho ex-girlfriend that I cannot send but wish I could after she emailed him again for the upteemth millionth time.
Dear CC,
Reasons the boyfriend doesn't want to be friends with you:
1) You broke into his house by climbing in through the dog door and accosted his girlfriend in the shower.
2) You stole over $600 of his stuff when you moved out. Including taking his brand new Kitchen Aid mixer out of the box, stealing it, and putting the box back.
3) Even after he had the cops call you to tell you to stop harassing him - you continue to harass him. You continue to do drive bys.
4) You aren't enough of a decent person to respect his boundaries and his choice to NOT be friends.
5) You threatened to and would have taken both the animals if you had gotten your way.
6) You continually use Sadie, his ex-dog, as a way to try to get under his skin.
The clues that the boyfriend doesn't want to be friends with you:
1) He hasn't contacted you or returned any of your contact in over 5 months.
2) He has told your mutual friends to let you know he isn't interested in a friendship.
3) He emailed you 5 months ago and told you specifically to stop contacting him and that he didn't want to be friends.
4) He is moving and not giving you his forwarding address.
5) He had the cops call you and tell you to stop harassing him and stop contacting him in any way.
6) Your text messages/voicemails/email threatening him that you are going to stop trying to be friends with him unless he contacts you illicit NO response from him. This means, he WANTS you to give up and stop contacting him.
Silence is an answer. I know it isn't the answer you want - but it is an answer, it says, LEAVE ME ALONE, I don't want to be friends. Please accept this CC, let go and move on. After 5 months of no contact you continually contacting him is just plain sad. Walk away with what little dignity you can possible manage to still have. Go read "It's called a breakup because it's broken" and follow what it says. You think you are over it - trust me I've been through a nasty breakup and I know what it is like - but if you still want him in your life so badly you are emailing/texting him/calling him every week after FIVE months of no contact on his part - you aren't over it. Do yourself a favor, let it go. Do us all a favor, let it go. He doesn't want you to be a part of his life. He has told you this so many times. Please hear it for once.
A letter written to the boyfriend's psycho ex-girlfriend that I cannot send but wish I could after she emailed him again for the upteemth millionth time.
Dear CC,
Reasons the boyfriend doesn't want to be friends with you:
1) You broke into his house by climbing in through the dog door and accosted his girlfriend in the shower.
2) You stole over $600 of his stuff when you moved out. Including taking his brand new Kitchen Aid mixer out of the box, stealing it, and putting the box back.
3) Even after he had the cops call you to tell you to stop harassing him - you continue to harass him. You continue to do drive bys.
4) You aren't enough of a decent person to respect his boundaries and his choice to NOT be friends.
5) You threatened to and would have taken both the animals if you had gotten your way.
6) You continually use Sadie, his ex-dog, as a way to try to get under his skin.
The clues that the boyfriend doesn't want to be friends with you:
1) He hasn't contacted you or returned any of your contact in over 5 months.
2) He has told your mutual friends to let you know he isn't interested in a friendship.
3) He emailed you 5 months ago and told you specifically to stop contacting him and that he didn't want to be friends.
4) He is moving and not giving you his forwarding address.
5) He had the cops call you and tell you to stop harassing him and stop contacting him in any way.
6) Your text messages/voicemails/email threatening him that you are going to stop trying to be friends with him unless he contacts you illicit NO response from him. This means, he WANTS you to give up and stop contacting him.
Silence is an answer. I know it isn't the answer you want - but it is an answer, it says, LEAVE ME ALONE, I don't want to be friends. Please accept this CC, let go and move on. After 5 months of no contact you continually contacting him is just plain sad. Walk away with what little dignity you can possible manage to still have. Go read "It's called a breakup because it's broken" and follow what it says. You think you are over it - trust me I've been through a nasty breakup and I know what it is like - but if you still want him in your life so badly you are emailing/texting him/calling him every week after FIVE months of no contact on his part - you aren't over it. Do yourself a favor, let it go. Do us all a favor, let it go. He doesn't want you to be a part of his life. He has told you this so many times. Please hear it for once.
posted by SweetB at 3:11 PM
2 Comments:
Don't you think you're being a little hard on the ex girlfriend?
I don't think you're being hard on the ex at all. Sometimes a little bluntness is what someone needs. Seriously move on, get over him and find someone who is into you. "Don't waste the pretty"
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